Leading by example: The power of moderation in leadership

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New team, new beginnings

I’ve just begun working with a new team, and I decided to organise a series of face-to-face, one-on-one sessions to get to know each member—where they are emotionally, physically, and mentally. These sessions have stirred up a whirlwind of emotions within me: moments of despair, flashes of sadness, and glimmers of hope and optimism.

I conducted the sessions using semi-structured interviews. I prepared a list of several questions but let the conversations flow, and I asked deeper probing questions as the conversation progressed. (I’m glad I still remember things I learnt from writing my dissertation – thank you, formal education system :))

I conducted these sessions over two weeks. After several sessions, I was captivated by a quote I heard on a podcast. It was relevant to a theme I picked up in most of the sessions at the time—the team had frustrations towards one of their direct line managers. According to most of the team, the line manager was somewhat hypocritical and could benefit from slightly better emotional intelligence.

The quote went:

“What leaders do in moderation, followers will do in excess.”

Introspection

As the quote resonated, it ignited a profound and introspective journey – the genesis of this reflective article. It reinforced my existing knowledge, but it also illuminated how leaders, often unknowingly, wield a subtle yet potent influence over their subordinates, shaping their organization’s culture. Entrepreneurs and business leaders, driven by their vision and goals, often establish the atmosphere of their organizations through their actions, inactions, and decisions. Whether it’s about profit, resource management, or fostering a positive work environment, the conduct of leaders sets a precedent that reverberates throughout the entire organization.

Consider, for instance, a leader who exemplifies moderation in their approach to risk-taking. By carefully weighing the potential rewards against the inherent uncertainties, they instil a culture of prudence and strategic decision-making within their team. Observing their leader’s cautious yet calculated demeanour, employees will likely adopt a similar mindset, leading to a culture of responsible risk management and long-term sustainability.

Conversely, if leaders act recklessly or impulsively, their followers might see this as an implicit endorsement of such behaviour. This can lead to a culture where short-term gains are prioritised over long-term stability, fostering a culture of excessive risk-taking and volatility. As a result, individual actions by leaders can evolve into a widespread tendency within the organisation, growing in scope and intensity. (I’ve experienced this many times as an engineer in civil engineering construction.)

Moreover, the principle of moderation extends beyond individual actions to encompass broader leadership traits and values. A leader who embodies integrity, humility, and empathy in their interactions fosters a culture of trust, collaboration, and inclusivity within their organisation. Conversely, leaders prioritising self-interest, arrogance, or indifference may sow seeds of discord, cynicism, and disengagement among their followers.

The saying “What I do in moderation, my followers will do in excess” highlights the weighty responsibility of leaders. Their actions shape their teams and organisations and influence their followers’ ethics and mindset. Like roots affecting an entire ecosystem, leadership effects extend beyond the boardroom, shaping society.

This principle prompts reflection on influence, power, and responsibility in human relationships. It emphasises the connection between individual choices and collective behaviour, showcasing the intricate interplay between leaders and followers. In a complex world, leaders’ decisions reverberate through time, shaping history.

Moreover, the saying stresses self-awareness and introspection in leadership. Leaders must understand their values, motivations, and vulnerabilities and realise the impact of their actions. By embodying moderation, wisdom, and ethical stewardship, they inspire greatness and resilience, steering toward a brighter future.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the saying offers profound insights into leadership and human behaviour dynamics. It reminds me of the balance between influence and responsibility, action and consequence. As we navigate business, politics, and society, let’s lead with integrity, humility, and foresight, mindful of our impact on others and the world.

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Author: Wilton